Think Like a Buyer: Why Education, Not Hard Selling, Wins High-Value Leads
- Asif Valiji
- Nov 26
- 3 min read
Since 2008, I’ve been deep in the trenches of SEO & business development projects.
Over nearly two decades, the landscape has changed, but one truth remains constant: the most successful organisations see SEO not just as a traffic metric, but as a precision tool for generating valuable leads and attracting the right type of client.
In this day and age, cutting through the noise to get the attention of prospective buyers is the hardest challenge businesses face. The more we advertise, the more we realise that broad strokes don't work. Product groups and services need to be specialised.
When you specialise, you stop chasing everyone and start attracting the people who actually need you.

The View from the Other Side of the Desk
To understand how to sell, you have to understand how people buy. Before I moved into lead generation and marketing, I spent the best part of 15 years as a product buyer for national and independent builders' merchants. This included working for Travis Perkins, who at the time were the single largest builders' merchant in the United Kingdom.
My job was to seek out solutions, procure products, and assess capabilities.
My biggest resource as a buyer? The Internet.
When I had a problem to solve or a product gap to fill, my first port of call was always to look for suppliers who clearly communicated their capabilities online. My goal was simple:
Search for the specific capability or product.
Shortlist the top three or four suppliers.
Invite them to tender or purchase directly.
If a supplier didn't articulate their capabilities clearly in that initial search, they didn't make the shortlist. It was that simple.
The Mistake Many Businesses Make
Now, sitting on the other side of the table as a Lead Generation Specialist, I am often amazed.
Many clients want to promote their products and services without a deep consideration of who their buyer is and what they are actually looking for. They try to "sell" before they have established relevance.
The more we understand the buyer's specific requirements—especially in heavily legislated areas like fire safety or technical product development—the better we can align our client's niche capabilities with the buyer's search intent.
The Strategy: Sell Less, Educate More
What works today is not a loud sales pitch. What works is a clearly articulated list of capabilities that aligns with the specific problems buyers are trying to solve.
"The less we sell online, the more likely we will be able to educate and find a common synergy."
By focusing on education rather than hard selling, we find a natural starting point for a relationship. We stop being a vendor and start being a solution.
This strategy has proven itself time and again. Over the past two years alone, this approach has generated millions of pounds in profitable business for our clients in construction and specialised sectors.
Why Quality Matters More Than Ever
The cost of doing business is rising. The cost of customer acquisition is higher than ever.
You cannot afford to waste time on low-quality leads. You need to ensure the likelihood of conversion before the conversation even begins. By educating your market and outlining your specific capabilities, you filter out the noise and attract only those truly engaged in what you offer.
Let’s Start the Conversation
We want to help you find more of the right people and convert your best opportunities.
To begin this process, we need to understand you.
Tell us about your product.
Tell us about your buyers.
Tell us about the markets you want to break into.
The less we sell, the more we educate, and the more we naturally inspire people to want to buy from us.
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